How Do I Know My Spouse Is Cheating?

Question: I suspect that my husband is cheating on me. He told some people that he has a girlfriend and walked out on me and our 2 kids 2 weeks ago. What will happen if I get proof and turn him in for it? ” – by ” princessthorn24

Answer: It all depends on the circumstance and what you want to happen to him. Have you thought through this thoroughly? His command will play a vital role is the outcome. Also, the amount of evidence that you have against him because he will probably deny it to the grave and she will too, I mean look, she’s having an affair with a married man with children. There isn’t much they can do to him if they do charge him besides take rank and that will only hurt the outcome of what they give to you and your children. If I were you, just let him know that you know and let that be the grounds for divorce unless you feel as if you can work through your marriage. You have two children together and if this was just a one time occurrence and counseling can be of assistance, then possibly contact the chaplain, they can work wonders. Or a referral to an off-base marriage counselor may help too. Talk to his 1st Sgt or his commander, I don’t know his rank but talk to whomever is above him and maybe they can intervene in some way. Protect yourself and your children first and foremost.

Answer By: gysgt.wife


Question: Hi, can anyone tell me which spyphone product is the best? I’ve been doing some research and its too tough to decide which one to buy, especially for a non techie like me.. I suspect my spouse is cheating, but want to find out first. Any help or info would be greatly appreciated. ” – by ” PandaGirl

Answer: To answer your question, you really need to know the following: 1) can you get access to the target phone? 2) what type of operating system does the phone have? Symbian (many of the new Nokias, Windows Mobile (looks like Windows XP, but on a mobile, Blackberry, or other) 3) Budget? More than $100? If you can answer “yes” to the first question, and then if the target phone is either a Symbian, Windows Mobile, or BlackBerry phone, and your budget is more than $100, I would recommend Flexispy Software. They are the leading company in the spy phone space, and their software allows you to do things such as 1) log incoming/outgoing sms, log incoming/outgoing calls, track location, live call intercept, and read incoming/outgoing emails. I’ve done a lot of research into all the spy phone products, and nothing comes close.

Answer By: Charles


Question: Something as stupid as spreading rumors that certain co-workers don’t like each other when in fact they’ve never worked together and barely know each other. Something as harsh as calling someone on the phone and telling them that their spouse is cheating just to see if the person will believe an anonymous stranger? What’s wrong with this person? Actually she doesn’t want people knowing that she does this. She tries to hide it and lies when she gets caught. She’s been caught outright a number of times. ” – by ” angry

Answer: all this person(s) want is attetion..They have no other way of getting unless they do something horrible and nasty…

Answer By: Cutie_Pie


Question: After a fight the other day, my spouse told me that she cheated on me with someone before we got married. We were engaged to be married! Now I wonder what the last 15 years has been worth to me. I don’t know what to do now, I don’t know that I can stay with someone that unfaithful knowing full well we were getting married. I am devastated. ” – by ” Tom

Answer: I don’t know how she has lived with that guilt for 15 years !!! I suggest you go to counselling urgently if you want any chance of saving your marriage. Trust me from experience it helps alot and it’s worth giving it a go. You may even learn to forgive her one day, you will never forget and neither will she but it is possible to move on from it and be happy but it takes both of you to want to make it work. She should arrange the counselling as a sign that she wants to fix things even if it is hard, she should do that for you.

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Question: 1. Leave. 2. Leave, and tell the other spouse who is being cheated on. 3. Try to work it out with your spouse and move on. 4. Try to work it out with your spouse but give the other spouse who’s being cheated on the heads-up. Any experiences? ” – by ” Been there, don’t want to go back

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Answer: Probably 3. Really depends on the situation though. I have children with him so I would really try to work on the relationship with my husband. And my husband has always been very trustworthy so it would be very much out of character for him. But even if I left I would never tell the other spouse. It just isn’t my place. It is her marriage and thus her problem. The only reason I would ever tell is if I knew that and STD was being passed around. Then and only then would I see it necessary to tell as it would be a health issue.

Answer By: Starsfan14


Question: I was watching a talk show and could not be the number of people that wait to tell their spouses or even relatives that they are cheating, lying or stealing on national TV. Why would these people do that? ” – by ” armyftcky1981

Answer: Some people like the attention. For others, there could be other issues. Person wants to come clean about cheating. Well, they figure the only way they can be honest is if they are up on stage and there is nowhere to run. They may also figure it is national TV. Their husband/wife wouldn’t dump them on national TV after finding out they were cheating, right? Maybe it is fear that if they told the spouse at home one-on-one, the spouse would hurt/kill them; the show offers some safety. With the “baby’s daddy” stuff, I think most of those women don’t know any better. They sit on their welfare butt and watch Maury every day. Then when they go out and party for a month and get pregnant by 1 of 3 different guys (or the mysterious 4th guy who is really in jail and they are hoping doesn’t even have to be brought up but is anyway because the other 3 “Are NOT the father”… you know what I mean), they turn to Maury for help. Yeah, the free hotel room (because they get everything else for free too, right?) is a nice perk. Free DNA testing. The ability to humiliate that “scrub” in front of national TV. They are so uneducated that they don’t know any better.

Answer By: Completely Anonymous


Question: Despite aknowledging an emotional affair, my wife has told me over and again that she never kissed him. But it just doesn’t make sense to me. My gut is telling me that she did, and she just can’t bring herself to admit it. How can you really know? ” – by ” John Johnson

Answer: does it really matter? I mean she admitted to the emotional affair and I assume asked for your forgiveness? the way I see it, you have 2 choices: 1.Choose to forgive her and move past this, hopefully seek counseling to address the issues that may have led her into this emotional affair. 2. Don’t forgive her and leave the marriage. There is no sense in sticking together if you can’t forgive her and this gnaws at you the rest of your life. That’s unhealthy.

Answer By: Rick Hunter


Question: They said they made a mistake and regretted it. It was done only once and the spouse apologized within days without prompting. ” – by ” Kenneth

Answer: Make sure you guys dig for the real reason the cheating took place. Talk about it. It could be about so many things and you need to find out why. Then you can both begin to heal from it.

Answer By: lisa m


Question: Hi, can anyone tell me which spyphone product is the best? I’ve been doing some research and its too tough to decide which one to buy, especially for a non techie like me.. I suspect my spouse is cheating, but want to find out first. Any help or info would be greatly appreciated. ” – by ” PandaGirl

Answer: To answer your question, you really need to know the following: 1) can you get access to the target phone? 2) what type of operating system does the phone have? Symbian (many of the new Nokias, Windows Mobile (looks like Windows XP, but on a mobile, Blackberry, or other) 3) Budget? More than $100? If you can answer “yes” to the first question, and then if the target phone is either a Symbian, Windows Mobile, or BlackBerry phone, and your budget is more than $100, I would recommend Flexispy Software. They are the leading company in the spy phone space, and their software allows you to do things such as 1) log incoming/outgoing sms, log incoming/outgoing calls, track location, live call intercept, and read incoming/outgoing emails. I’ve done a lot of research into all the spy phone products, and nothing comes close.

Answer By: Charles


Question: Something as stupid as spreading rumors that certain co-workers don’t like each other when in fact they’ve never worked together and barely know each other. Something as harsh as calling someone on the phone and telling them that their spouse is cheating just to see if the person will believe an anonymous stranger? What’s wrong with this person? Actually she doesn’t want people knowing that she does this. She tries to hide it and lies when she gets caught. She’s been caught outright a number of times. ” – by ” angry

Answer: all this person(s) want is attetion..They have no other way of getting unless they do something horrible and nasty…

Answer By: Cutie_Pie

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